Elite Inner Mastery Coaching For Smart, High-Achieving Men
Finally Make Success Feel as Good as It Looks: Unlock True Freedom from Pressure, a Drama-Free Relationship, or Full Recovery from a Breakup
Your Life Looks Great on the Outside, But Wouldn’t It Be Nice If It Felt Great Too?
Being smart and successful is wonderful.
But, unfortunately, intellect and achievements can't erase our internal pressure, remove drama from our relationship, or help us get over a breakup.
That’s where I come in.
I’m Noah, and I specialize in helping smart, high-achieving men permanently break free from the emotional patterns driving their pressure and relationship struggles.
If you’re ready to stop analyzing and start actually resolving the deeper patterns running your life, here are the 3 core issues I specialize in helping successful men overcome.
The 3 Core Issues I Help High-Performing Men To Permanently Resolve
1) Pressure
Do you feel an almost constant pressure to achieve more success, prove you're great, always be smart, make the right choices, be perfect in every moment, never mess up or show weakness, stay productive all the time, or accumulate even more wealth?
2) Relationship Issues
In your relationship, do you often find yourself getting defensive, taking things personally, getting pulled into arguments, emotionally shutting down, feeling frustrated by her emotions, walking on eggshells to avoid fights, or feeling like nothing you do is ever enough to make her happy?
3) Breakups
Did you go through a breakup, and find yourself stuck in a loop of thinking about your ex, overanalyzing what went wrong, feeling hurt or angry, frustrated that you can’t let go, or feeling pressure to move on, prove you’re okay, and get your life back on track as fast as possible?
Why Your Usual Strategies Haven’t Solved These Issues Already
You’re Trying to Analyze Your Way Out of Emotions
Your analytical capacity has likely been your greatest asset; it’s how you’ve solved problems and created success. So it makes sense that you’d try to apply the same logic to emotional struggles.
But no matter how sharp your mind is, deep emotional patterns can’t be unraveled through intellectual insights alone.
You Gather Knowledge to Try to Create Transformation
When you hit a challenge, your instinct is to research. You read books, listen to podcasts, and learn all you can. That approach has worked everywhere else.
But emotional issues don’t shift just because you understand them. Real change comes from actually unwiring the roots.
The Tools You’ve Used Are Too Basic for a Mind Like Yours
You’ve put in the work. You’ve tried many tactics, practices, or modalities.
But most of what’s out there wasn’t built for someone like you. They’re just too simplistic, too surface-level. They don’t match the complexity of your mind, the intelligence of your strategies, or the depth of what you’ve been carrying.
What Sets This Work Apart & Why It's So Effective
#1: No Generic Advice or Spiritual Fluff — Just Root-Level Transformation That Lasts
You’ve avoided emotional work because it felt too vague, soft, or spiritual. This isn’t that. There are no crystals, no affirmations. No generic tips, hacks, or platitudes. This is psychological and emotional deprogramming for men who value clarity, precision, and results. We go straight to the root; unwinding emotional patterns, inherited strategies, and subconscious beliefs.
#2: No Endless Storytelling — Just Outcome-Driven Guidance
You won’t spend sessions venting, telling stories, or talking in circles. That doesn’t drive results. This work is laser-focused, outcome-driven, and highly efficient. We resolve suppressed emotions and false beliefs through subtle and nuanced processes that create deep, lasting change without the need for drama, overwhelming experiences, or emotional theatrics.
#3: No Pointless Validating — Just Sharp Insight for Smart Men
You don’t need someone who just nods along while you talk. You need someone who can see what you can’t; your blind spots, defense mechanisms, and hidden levers keeping you stuck. I specialize in working with high achieving men: founders, entrepreneurs, & executives, as well as guys in finance, tech, and consulting. Men who think deeply and are focused on growth.
#4: No Homework or Daily Practices — Just Results from Every Session
You don’t need more to-dos. You don’t have time for daily practices. During each session, we resolve what’s driving your problem at its core, so you can walk away feeling differently, without any extra effort between calls. No need to remember to apply a technique next time you’re triggered. No homework. No hoping it eventually works. Just measurable results, every time.
The Deep Changes You Can Expect From Working With Me
1) Genuine Calm & Confidence
True Confidence Without the Pressure
You’ll finally feel genuinely confident and deeply secure in your self-worth. Without all the perfectionist pressure, you’ll be able to actually enjoy work, get in the flow, and take on more ambitious projects.
Calm Focus Under Stress
When things get intense — deadlines, big decisions, setbacks — you’ll stay calm, clear, and composed, able to think strategically without pressure, frustration, or self-criticism clouding your judgment.
The Ability to Fully Relax
You’ll be able to switch off and truly relax during downtime, enjoying yourself without the feeling that you’re falling behind or should be doing something more productive.
Testimonial from a Smart, High-Achieving Man:
"Anytime I had to speak in front of people, anxiety completely took over. Presentations and board meetings were a nightmare. I constantly feared being seen as weak. But after working with Noah, everything’s different. I can actually talk in front of a room without feeling sweaty and panicked. I even spoke in front of a few hundred people and felt totally fine. I don’t feel like I have to prove anything anymore. I just show up as myself. And honestly, that’s been freeing in a way I didn’t even know was possible. And the way I talk to myself now is so much healthier. Wow. I can’t recommend Noah highly enough."
— Alex, Managing Director, New York
2) Relationship Ease & Control
Stay Grounded & Unshakable
Her emotions and comments will no longer affect you. You’ll remain calm, confident, and in full control of yourself, no matter what she says or feels.
The End of Fights
Arguments stop before they start. When you stop reacting emotionally, you’ll naturally de-escalate tension, making her feel more loved, understood, and safe around you.
Enjoy a Lighter, Happier Relationship
Once the triggers disappear and you stop fearing her emotions, your relationship will become effortless, filled with more fun, love, ease, and sexuality.
Testimonial from a Smart, High-Achieving Man:
"Before working with Noah I was in a relationship crisis that had consumed me. I was anxious, depressed and emotionally immature. I was easily triggered by my wife, felt overwhelmed with my problems, and saw no light at the end of the tunnel. Working with Noah changed my life for the better. I resolved my issues, grew in emotional maturity and am happier than I've ever been. I rarely get triggered by anything these days. I would highly recommend working with Noah. My life is fantastic now and I attribute that to the work I've done with Noah."
— David, Startup Founder, California
3) Completely Over Your Breakup
You’ll Feel Completely Over Her
You'll be 100% free from the overthinking, no longer replaying the past, released from self-blame, over the hurt and anger, confident, and lighter than you’ve felt in years.
Testimonial from a Smart, High-Achieving Man:
"I spent over a year trying everything I could find to get over her before working with Noah. I thought I was screwed. He helped me to get to a place I didn't think was possible. I don't blame myself anymore. I don't miss her anymore. I feel good. It was really amazing what he did for me."
— Chris, Finance, Chicago
Why High-Performing Men Choose To Work With Me
#1: A Track Record That Speaks Louder Than Words
Since 2010, I’ve helped over 1,000 coaching clients, from entrepreneurs to executives, overcome their deepest struggles. My YouTube channel has over 230,000 subscribers and 20 million views.
My book, A Guide to The Present Moment, was the #1 Bestselling Counseling book on Amazon in 2013 and has sold more than 120,000 copies worldwide. My process is tested, refined, and highly effective.
#2: Pinpoint Precision for Faster Breakthroughs
With 14 years of coaching experience and a sharp analytical mind (former Mensa member, Goldman Sachs analyst, and strategy consultant), I’m able to see what others miss.
I specialize in pinpointing the exact subconscious belief, emotional pattern, or early experience at the root of your struggle. I cut through complexity and get straight to what drives real change fast.
#3: Highly Targeted Mastery
I only take on clients who think like me. High-performing, smart, analytical. And I only help clients with the exact issues I’ve personally faced and resolved within myself. That’s why this work is so effective.
This isn’t theory. I’ve invested over 20,000 hours to my own inner-work to resolve my struggles, and now I use this experience to help smart clients skip years of frustrating trial and error.
Real Words Straight from the Smart Men Who've Done The Work
"I used to get easily triggered by things my partner would unintentionally say or do. I’d get upset and react in ways I later regretted. It was threatening our relationship, and I hated my lack of control in these situations. After working with Noah, I’m now calmer and way less easily upset. I feel proud of the fact that I have more self-control, and my partner is super-pleased and respects me more. Our relationship is now more loving and fun.
I get that for men, seeing someone like Noah can be a challenge. I certainly was not sure if it would be worth the money or actually make a difference. Having worked with him, and gotten immediate and sustained results, I would tell you not to hesitate. Noah can quickly cut through the crap to the issues you have and find a way to create emotional change, which I have to admit I found quite surprising. It requires an emotional investment to put yourself in Noah's hands, but it's totally worth it."
George
Entrepreneur, New Zealand
"I was a workaholic who was constantly burying myself in my businesses to prove I was good enough. I tried many other methods to get help with this before finally finding the missing jigsaw piece with Noah. Through sessions with Noah, I finally feel like myself again underneath all the negative learned behaviours. Noah quickly removed the blocks imposed on me growing up and helped me find freedom in acceptance of myself. Noah has a unique way of tuning into your problem and helping you destroy it at the core level. For any man looking for a no-nonsense approach, this is in my opinion, priceless."
James
Entrepreneur, UK
“I tried so many methods to get over my ex, but nothing worked until I met Noah. Now she's completely out of my mind.”
Ezra
Engineer, Texas
The Path to Calm, Confidence, and Control Can Be Quicker Than You Think
You don’t need to spend years stuck in the same patterns, managing stress, overthinking, pressure, or emotional triggers.
Real change doesn’t have to take forever. When you address the roots, things can shift really quickly.
I’ve spent over a decade solving the exact problems you're facing, so you don’t have to waste years trying to figure it out on your own.
The men I work with walk away clearer, calmer, and more at peace. Almost all say it’s the most effective work they’ve ever done.
If you’re done managing symptoms and ready for lasting resolution, here’s how we can work together.
Money-Back Satisfaction Guarantee
Since I specialize in helping a very specific type of person with only a few targeted issues, my success rate is very high. For this reason, I don’t offer introduction calls. However, after 3 sessions, if either of us feels this isn't the right path for you, I’ll gladly refund any unused sessions.
Success Is Only Half The Battle: Choose Your Path To Inner Mastery
What You'll Receive as a Private Coaching Client
(in Both Programs)
3-Month: Focused Breakthrough Program
12 Weekly Sessions
Perfect if you want to address 1 to 3 high-impact emotional challenges. We’ll resolve what’s costing you the most energy right now.
Investment: $5,500
Prefer to Pay Monthly?
Investment: 3 Monthly Payments of $1,900
6-Month: Inner Mastery Accelerator
24 Weekly Sessions
Ideal if you're looking for permanent relief from more than 3 issues. More sessions mean deeper impacts and larger transformations.
Investment: $9,900
(Save $1,100)
Prefer to Pay Monthly?
Investment: 6 Monthly Payments of $1,700
(Save $200 / Month)
Frequently Asked Questions
Many of my clients have already tried therapy, books, or coaching, only to find that nothing truly changed. The difference is that I don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach. I work exclusively with smart, analytical, high-achieving men like you, and I only help with challenges I’ve personally struggled with and resolved. This level of focus has made me a true master in my specialty.
I know how to break through the sophisticated mental defenses that most therapists and coaches don’t even recognize, let alone overcome. I understand the deep, subtle intricacies of how and why we (smart, analytical men) think, react, and feel the way we do. And because of that, I can help you get real, lasting results where other approaches have failed.
No. Many of my clients are highly analytical and have spent their whole life suppressing emotions. This process is specifically designed to work for men who think logically and struggle to connect with their emotions.
That said, if you already have some access to your feelings, you may experience faster shifts. But even if you don’t, that’s not a barrier. This work will still help you break through your mental and emotional challenges.
Through over 14 years of giving sessions, I have learned that a commitment to weekly sessions provides the highest impact for my clients. Therefore, that is the intention of my coaching programs.
After the first 6 sessions, it's possible to have the sessions once every 2 weeks if that feels more comfortable for you. However, I do not accept clients who want to have a single session every once in a while.
Each session begins with a roughly 5 to 10 minute check-in to hear about your experience over the past week in order to assess how effective the tactics employed in our previous session have been.
From there, I will guide you through targeted exercises designed to uncover and dissolve the subconscious beliefs and suppressed emotions driving your struggles. Rather than just talking about your challenges, we create real shifts in the moment, leading to immediate relief and lasting change.
Even though this is deep serious work, it's also not so serious. We already live great lives, and I'm just here to make yours feel even better. So, while being super-focused on achieving the desired results, we will also still have a laugh together from time to time.
Almost all clients experience relief or a tangible shift after just 1 or 2 sessions. This is because my approach isn’t about giving you more knowledge or insights. It’s about guiding you through targeted exercises to identify and unravel the roots of what's causing your struggle. You'll notice the experiential shift in the moment when we're working together.
At the end of a session, you'll often notice feeling completely lighter, as if you're issue is totally gone. Then, over the following week, you'll assess how much your emotional challenge has actually lowered in intensity during situations that usually trigger it. For example, you may notice a reduction of 10%, 50%, or even 100% in how powerful the emotion/thought normally feels.
Depending on the results, we'll dive deeper into the same root cause, or explore other roots, in order to keep reducing the intensity levels until there's just nothing left.
Yes. You're welcome to send me an email to ask me any questions. I only work with a specific type of men, on only a very few set of issues, because this highly targeted approach enables me to offer the highest possible impact to my clients. Therefore, if you share with me what you're struggling with, and I don't believe I can effectively help you overcome it, then I will absolutely tell you that I'm not the right fit. My email is Noah [at] NoahElkrief [dot] com.
I normally don't give intro calls, but if exchanging emails doesn't give either of us enough clarity about whether to take the next step, we can absolutely setup a 15-minute intro call.
Many of my high-achieving clients believe they had a great childhood—no abuse, no major traumas. But you don’t need to have experienced intense hardship to struggle with anxiety, insecurity, or relationship challenges. Even in the seemingly happiest families, subtle dynamics can create limiting beliefs and emotional patterns that lead to internal struggles.
After purchasing a session package, you'll receive an email with a scheduling link. My next available appointment is typically 1 to 3 weeks out.
I work Sunday to Thursday.
For U.S. clients: I’m available in the mornings and late evenings.
For European clients: I’m available in the mornings and afternoons.
If you have any questions, please email me at Noah [at] NoahElkrief [dot] com
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