Undo the Hidden Training That Makes Work Pressure Feel Normal
Release Yourself from the Fear-Based Motivation and Pressure to Perform that School Trained You to See as Normal
To Live A Genuinely Happy Life, We Must Have A Healthy Relationship To Work
What Is Your Relationship To Work?
It is so common or “normal” to live like this that we may not even realize how messed up it is.
School Taught You to Accept Fear, Pressure, and Boredom as "Normal"
Your current relationship to work isn’t an accident, and it isn’t personal.
It is the result of many years of subtle conditioning in an education system where pressure, comparison, and fear were treated as normal motivators.
In school, you were repeatedly required to:
Over time, this shaped everything: How you work. How you motivate yourself. How you feel about rest, productivity, hobbies, social life, and self-worth.
What started as a strategy to survive in the classroom... became your default operating system in adult life.
The school system teaches us to stay in unhappy situations and motivate ourselves through fear.
What Changes When You Deprogram from the Patterns School Normalized
When you undo the invisible rules that school conditioned into you, the way you relate to work, effort, and rest changes deeply.
You may start to notice that you can:
These shifts aren’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about getting back to how we would authentically experience life if school’s conditioning were no longer silently shaping our choices.
That’s why I created this course.
Unlearn the Rules That Still Run Your Work Life
This 7-week course guides you through unwiring the school conditioning that still drives your pressure, guilt, and fear around work.
If you’re ready to relate to work with less pressure and experience more ease in your life, this course can help you do that.
What's Included In This Course
Over 7 weeks, you’ll receive access to 14 targeted modules — released twice per week — each one designed to help you systematically unwire the core pieces of conditioning school installed in your mind.
These are the patterns that still affect how you relate to work, success, motivation, emotion, and self-worth.
Each module includes:
- A focused 20-minute video to help you unlearn a specific harmful belief you absorbed during school
- Two written exercises to help you integrate the shift directly into your daily life
Here's Exactly What We’ll Be Deprogramming
1) You Couldn't Follow Your Desires While In Class
You were taught to ignore your impulses — to speak, move, or explore — and replace them with obedience. This shut down your ability to follow your intuition.
2) You Were Forced To Do Things You Didn't Want To
Being pushed to do what you didn’t want trained you to ignore your inner “no” and normalized defeat. It disconnected you from your willpower and agency.
3) You Were Motivated By Fear & Punishment
You were taught to do work out of fear — of failure, disapproval, or consequences — rather than from desire. This made fear your default driver of effort.
4) You Were Taught to Sacrifice the Present for the Future
You were conditioned to believe that happiness comes after effort, not during. This normalized pushing through misery now in exchange for a future reward.
5) Your Time To Do What You Enjoy Was Limited
You learned that joy should be minimal and scheduled — while most of life should be spent doing what you don’t enjoy.
6) You Were Taught That Teachers Know Better
You were told to defer to authority instead of trusting your own judgment. This weakened your confidence in your inner knowing.
7) Your Grades Determined How You Were Treated
You were trained to believe that your value (how much love you get) depends on how well you perform. This created a life of pressure, anxiety, and fear around being evaluated for performance.
8) You Were Taught That Success Is What Matters Most
You were conditioned to chase external achievement above all else, even if it meant sacrificing your peace, connections, authenticity, or wellbeing.
9) You Felt Pressure to Fit In and Be Popular
You learned to measure your self-worth by how your classmates saw you. To avoid rejection and gain approval, you adapted your behavior, personality, or opinions — often at the expense of your authenticity.
10) Nobody Truly Prioritized Your Happiness
Your parents and teachers valued your output more than your emotional state. This sets us up for a lifetime of valuing work we don't enjoy over doing what actually makes us happy.
11) Your Tasks Mattered More Than Your Emotions
You were taught to suppress how you feel in order to meet deadlines or fulfill expectations. This made it normal treat emotions as unimportant, and prioritize progress over wellbeing.
12) Your Fun and Wild Sides Weren’t Welcome
You were taught to tone yourself down to be “appropriate.” This shut down your playfulness, aliveness, and full expression so deep that it can become almost impossible to access.
13) Your Classmates Were Your Competition
Your performance, and the rewards you received, were determined relative to your peers. This trains you to view others as rivals instead of teammates. This creates isolation and blocks receiving/giving support.
14) You Were Controlled Through Punishments
You were punished for breaking rules and treated like you were bad. Over time, this taught you to associate mistakes with shame, and to believe you don’t fully deserve love, joy, or connection.
About Noah Elkrief
I know what it’s like to feel stressed, bored, monotonous, over-worked, and isolated in my life. I went through thousands of hours of healing to get to a place where I feel happy, authentic, relaxed, motivated, and aligned with my purpose. I know first-hand how amazing this shift of experience feels. That’s why I’ve made this course.
I'm the author of, "A Guide To The Present Moment", which was the #1 Bestselling Counseling book on Amazon. My Youtube videos have over 225,000 subscribers and 20 million views.
This course is built from the most powerful insights and exercises that helped me, and have used in over 1,000 private sessions with clients around the world since 2010.
What People Experienced After Taking This Course
"I didn’t realize how much pressure I was living under until it started lifting. I feel calmer during work in a way I’ve never experienced before. I’m still working just as much, but it doesn’t feel like I’m constantly bracing myself anymore. That alone made this worth it." — Vikram
“I always thought pressure was just part of being driven. This course helped me see how much of my motivation was coming from fear instead rather than genuine desire. My motivation feels cleaner now, less tense." — Aaron
"Rest used to feel really uncomfortable, like I was doing something wrong. After a few weeks in the course, that started to change. I’ve actually relaxed a few times without feeling like I need to justify it. That’s a big deal for me." — Jason
How This Course Creates Real Change
#1: Root-Level Work, Lasting Impact
This isn’t generic advice to manage symptoms. We target the subconscious beliefs that drive your patterns. As you resolve the roots, those specific patterns dissolve or weaken dramatically, without needing ongoing maintenance.
#2: Immediate Experiential Shift
This isn’t theory. Each video in this course is filled with guided exercises and explanations that are meant to provide you with an instant experiential impact. No need to guess or hope that it may help one day in the future if you practice it enough.
#3: Logic-Led Emotional Unwiring
This isn’t vague or woo-woo. It’s a clear, logic-led method to clear the hidden beliefs and emotional charges behind your unwanted emotions, reactions, & patterns. You’ll intellectually understand every step and feel your reactivity drop, layer by layer, for good.
#4: Methods That Hold Up in Real Life
These processes have been tested, refined, and proven over 15+ years with 1,000+ clients and hundreds of course participants, with countless men reporting feeling permanently less triggered.
You Don’t Have to Live Under Constant Pressure
There was a time in your life before effort felt heavy, before motivation came from fear, and before rest felt undeserved.
You prioritized happiness, joy, and connection without needing to earn them.
That way of relating to life didn’t disappear.
It’s simply been overridden by years of conditioning around performance, evaluation, and approval.
This course helps remove the conditioning that’s been quietly shaping how you push yourself through fear and pressure, so you can relate to work and life with more ease and clarity.
If you’re ready to stop living under constant internal pressure, and reclaim your authentic way of living, this course can help you do that.
60-Day Hassle-Free Money-Back Guarantee
If this course helps you reconnect with your natural joy, ease, and motivation, it will be worth far more than what you pay for it.
But I understand you can’t know how helpful it will be until you experience it for yourself.
That’s why I offer a 60-day, no-questions-asked, money-back guarantee.
If you fully engage with the course and don’t find it genuinely helpful, just email me. You’ll get a full refund within 24 hours — no questions, no hassle.
There’s no risk in giving it a try.
Only the possibility of getting back to the way you were always meant to feel.
What Changed for People Who Took This Course
"I’ve always tied how I feel about myself to how productive I am. This helped loosen that in a way I couldn’t do intellectually. I’m still ambitious, but my mood isn’t riding as much on every outcome anymore. It feels healthier." — Andrew
“What stood out to me was realizing how automatic a lot of my work habits were. That gave me a lot more choice in how I approach things now. It’s made me more intentional and less reactive with how I spend my time." — Omar
"I feel like I understand how life works better now. It’s like I’d been running on one operating system my whole life and thought that was just reality. Now I see another way of relating to things. Having that option has changed a lot for me." — Elias
Join This Course To Finally Stop Living Under Constant Internal Pressure
Relate to Work with More Ease, Calm, and Clarity
Undo the Fear-Based Patterns School Trained You to See as Normal
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Total Value: $595
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