Success For Your Inner World
I help smart men solve the emotional challenges that logic alone can’t fix — relationship triggers, breakup pain, and the constant pressure to prove yourself.
The Men I Help (And the Problems We Eliminate)
I work exclusively with smart, high-performing, growth-focused men to permanently resolve 3 types of challenges.
1) Relationship Conflict & Reactivity
You get emotionally triggered, shut down, or overwhelmed by your partner’s reactions.
I’ll help you stay calm, grounded, and in control — without faking it.
2) Breakup Pain
You can’t sleep, can’t think straight, and keep replaying everything.
I’ll help reset your emotional system so you feel like yourself again.
3) Internal Pressure
You live with constant pressure to be perfect, prove yourself, and perform.
I’ll help you finally feel peace without losing your edge.
Why Smart Men Trust Me
A track record that speaks louder than words.
- 1,000+ private clients since 2010 — Founders, finance guys, execs, and entrepreneurs
- 230,000+ YouTube subscribers / 20 Million+ views — Trusted by men worldwide
- #1 Amazon Bestselling Counseling Book — A Guide to The Present Moment (120,000+ copies sold)
- Former Goldman Sachs (NY) & strategy consultant (London) — I speak your language
- Accepted into Mensa High IQ Society — I cut through complexity fast
- Meditated daily from age 6 to 24 — almost two decades of training my mind before I ever helped anyone
- 20,000+ hours of deep inner work — This isn’t theory. I’ve solved these patterns within myself and live with the benefits every day.
What Makes This Work So Different (and So Effective)
This isn’t mindset coaching, talk therapy, or spiritual fluff.
This is root-level emotional deprogramming — for men who value precision and results.
1) Immediate Relief
No need to hope you may eventually get results. I guide people through exercises to have an immediate experiential impact. You’ll feel real shifts right away.
2) Root-Level Healing
No superficial advice. We’ll identify and remove the root causes: subconscious beliefs, suppressed emotions, inherited family patterns, and childhood survival strategies.
3) Permanent Change
This is not symptom management. You'll get real lasting change with no ongoing maintenance required. No endless practice or daily techniques to apply to your life.
4) Subtle, Not Dramatic
No big cathartic emotional releases needed. No dramatic theatrics, or being pushed to cry. Instead, you’ll be guided through subtle, nuanced processes.
It’s not about learning how to cope — it’s about becoming someone who no longer needs to.
Why I Do This Work
On the surface, my life looked impressive. But internally, I lived with constant pressure to be perfect, and nothing I accomplished ever made me feel “enough.” In my relationships, even though I loved my partners, I would get intensely reactive, shut down, or take things too personally.
After realizing that no amount of success or love from a woman could resolve what I was feeling inside, I became relentlessly committed to finding a permanent solution.
I dove into doing deep inner work. And I stayed with it long enough to actually solve the root of the problem — not just manage it. Now I live with real confidence, inner peace, and a playful, easy relationship.
For the last 14 years, I help other analytical, high-performing men create that same shift, without wasting years trying to figure it out themselves.
Who I Am Beyond The Work
- 40 years old, born and raised in Westchester, NY
- Living in Bali for the past 5 years — it gives me a quality of life I never imagined possible
- Previously lived in London (2 yrs), the Netherlands (2 yrs), and Thailand (1 yr)
- Living with my wonderful girlfriend, Lara, in a relationship that feels truly effortless, fun, and loving
- Lover of wild dancing, kayaking, river rafting, padel, live concerts, and forest walks
- Avid traveler to 40+ countries, always exploring new adventures, hotels, restaurants, and environments